Sex and The City have been the most influential and relatable romantic comedy show/movie series, and a consultancy source for those who seek effective advice on matters of the heart.
Revolving around the lives of four women with different natures and ever-changing sex lives, Sex and The City does provide impressive amounts of important life lessons that one should know.
Here are some honest and incredibly useful pieces of advice given to Sex and The City, which will never grow old.
“The most important thing in life is your family. There are days you love them and others you don’t. But, in the end, they’re the people you always come home to. Sometimes it’s the family you’re born into and sometimes it’s the one you make for yourself”
Need I explain this? This beautiful dialogue puts itself in front of you clearly. Carrie mentions this dialogue quoting the importance of family in a script of a sex-comedy. unheard of and unlikely for a movie with such a theme. Thumbs up to the script writer.
“Sexy is what I try to get them to see after I win them over with my personality.”
“And truer words were never spoken.” Now, that’s a perfect woman talking. Miranda clears it up to her friends how she lets her sexual side show up to men only after she wins them with her brains. A message to all guys out there, that’s the perfect woman talking, the mantra is beauty with brains.
“Balls are to men what purses are to women. It’s just a little bag, but we’d feel naked in public without it.”
Carrie is at it again. If it was possible we would just dedicate the whole page to Carrie. These wise and yet funny words from her tell you the truth about men and women. Comparing balls to the purses, only Carrie can do this. For men who never realized this, you now know what’s your true money is.
“I’m a tri-sexual. I’ll try anything once.”
LOL to that. Oh, how I miss the pun in Samantha words in this show. We all know how Samantha was all about exploring in the show. She coins this term of tri-sexual, and I guess this should replace our daily word for ‘adventure’. So, you want to be like Samantha? Be adventures… I mean.. be tri-sexual.
“Can you have an affair with your own husband”
We couldn’t miss her, could we? Charlotte asks this question about a scenario when you could fall in love with the one you marry. Well, this is an answer itself. For those you going through trouble times in your married relationships, this could be a question that you might want to ask yourself.
“Listen to me. The right guy is an illusion. Start living your lives.”
Are you still waiting around for your soul-mate? Still hoping to find that one ‘perfect guy’ who would be your knight in shining armour? By doing so, it will be too late until you realise that the ‘perfect guy’ in non-existent. You don’t necessarily have to be stuck with the first guy you meet, but if you are really into someone, then maybe he is the guy you have been waiting all along!
“Sex with an ex can be depressing. If it’s good, you can’t get it anymore. If it’s bad, you just had sex with an ex.”
If you ever feel the sudden urge and adrenaline rush to contact your ex and meet up for lovemaking, think again. Take time and think about the whole situation. Nothing good can ever come out of having sex with your ex. In the end you would only feel shame, misery, guilt and, helplessness about giving in so easily to your impulses.
“Men who are too good looking are never good in bed because they never had to be.”
The men who have the gift of good looks are most often poor bedroom performers. Not saying that it is the ultimate truth, but you never know. This is because when it comes down to sex, they always think of their own ecstasy. Sure, their good looks might compensate, but nobody likes to have mediocre experiences in matters like this.
“You’ve got to get online, honey. If only for the porn.”
Sex and The City taught us to be unafraid, bold and confident about our sexuality. Whatever turns you on, whatever pleasures you and whatever satisfies you, never be ashamed to do that. Be it porn, sexting, or any other prurient interest, go ahead and do everything that your libido says and have fun!
These were some of the valuable lessons that Sex And The City taught us, through its raunchy TV series and movies. Keeping these in mind would probably help you a lot when it comes to matters pertaining to sex and love life.